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[seekingferret]

I matched with someone in a virtual speed dating a month ago. Since then we've managed one video date, plus a bunch of emails back and forth of me trying to schedule another and her telling me she's not sure what her schedule is and will get back to me.

What's a polite way to say "Hey, I can't tell if you're interested and busy or trying to awkwardly blow me off, but it's gotten to the point where I'm annoyed. If you're not interested, tell me so I can stop wasting time. And if you're busy, the ball's now in your court to figure out when you're available and try to set another date." ?

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[calledtovienna]

Third. You want her to know that the ball is in her court, and this gets that across. If you don't get a response, assume that she is either not interested, or doesn't have her stuff together enough to handle logistics of this relationship (which is basically the same as not interested).