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Apr. 7th, 2026 11:34 am
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The brother came for dinner with his wife and his eldest daughter (they left the 20 month old with the Phillipino nurse) and we had a great evening of dinner and talking and catching up and dealing with an enthusiastic 5 year old.

And I have learned that I do not know how to deal with small willful children. I've dealt with small children at church and in social things before, but generally their parents are pretty clear on the boundaries. Not that G and his wife S weren't, just that I think Miss 5 worked out that I was a pushover pretty early and basically decided I was the most fun to push boundaries with.

Oy.

But it was a good night. I did the food prep and it went down well. G and S enjoyed themselves, and Miss 5 also liked having aunties who were happy to play and engage with her.

But man that girl has a lot of energy.

Anyway, they came around 5:30pm, we had dinner around 6:15, and they left around 9-9:30pm. It was such a good night!
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In a move that should surprise absolutely no one, I have fallen deep into "Heated Rivalry". It's so refreshing to be only a few months late to a TV show fandom's debut! I absolutely love every part of it, from the steamy love scenes, to the tropealicious romance arc, to the gorgeous and talented leads, to the unhinged interviews with the cast (Hudson Williams, you horny chaos gremlin, never change), to the showrunner Jacob Tierney and his uncompromising vision of a gay love story with passionate love scenes that doesn't end in punishing tragedy, as well as his media savvy and whip-smart presence. The only thing that could have made me love it even more is if they had hired some of the old gang from the Seacouver Acting Mafia. David Hewlett as a crotchety coach? Tahmoh Penikett as a hockey enforcer? Throw us a bone here, Jacob!

I love everybody in this bar and have a ridiculous number of tabs open and a huge swath of fic marked for later on A03.

In no particular order, here are some of my favorites:

Gay Hockey Show
An absolute gem of a filk + vid (do I need to call them edits now? Fuck I'm old). This had me literally clapping and kicking my feet. I may have hit octaves only my dog heard with my squees of joy.

Shane & Ilya - We Found Love [Heated Rivalry]
Do you ever get lost in new relationship energy and every song on your playlist could be the soundtrack for a vid? And then sometimes you get lucky enough that someone has already had your brilliant idea and done a fantastic job so you don't have to? Yeah, that's this one with Rihanna's "We Found Love". I swear I watched it on repeat for a week to get my micro dopamine hits for this show. I really want to learn how to incorporate dialogue and audio from the source with the vid song to be able to make something like this.

clear to a hedgehog by magneticwave
An AU where Boston Raider Ilya Rozanov wonders if his casual fling Doctor Shane Hollander thinks he's actually in the Russian mafia. If I could send the author flowers and accolades and beg for more of this, I would. Delicious prose, fantastic character voices, super hot.

the secret society of stick handlers by gurlsrool
A screamingly funny epistolary series which had me shrieking so loud my husband was laughing at me.

So yeah, that's where my brain is at. What are you up to?
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Miss Manners' guide to padawan seduction (100 words) by Petra
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Star Wars Prequel Trilogy
Rating: Mature
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Obi-Wan Kenobi/Anakin Skywalker
Characters: Obi-Wan Kenobi, Anakin Skywalker
Additional Tags: Drabble, Bad form
Summary:

Obi-Wan judges Anakin's timing harshly.

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20 Dylan Zhou from ThamePo Heart That Skips a Beat icons for [community profile] characters20in20. The famous painting I picked is Water Lilies by Claude Monet.

Preview:


*Icons are free for use.
*Credit and comments are nice.

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Books read, March 2026

Apr. 7th, 2026 02:32 am
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This month I finally did something I should have done ages ago: I checked out every library ebook currently available from my wishlist there and put holds on as many others as they would let me hold at once, so I could browse -- the way I once would have done in a bookstore. The truth is that there are many books where I can tell within the first ten pages that they're unlikely to be for me, and by taking some time to give a quick look to a bunch of things, I was able to clear a good portion of that bunch off my list.

. . . meaning that instead of my TBR being seventeen miles long, it is now a mere sixteen miles long. But that's progress! And it in no way interfered with me being able to finish a goodly number of books last month.



How to Become the Dark Lord and Die Trying, Django Wexler. This was selected by a book club I intermittently participate in, and I was startled by how quickly it drew me in. (This definitely contributed to the decision to ebook-browse: one of those periodic salutary reminders that there are plenty of books out there I don't have to "give a chance," because they click right out of the gate.)

The premise here is straightforward isekai: Davi, the protagonist, is someone from our world dropped into a fantasy realm, with no idea of how she got there or why she keeps resetting to the moment of her arrival every time she dies. She's supposedly the prophecied hero who will save the human kingdom from an army of monstrous wilders led by a Dark Lord, but after failing at that several hundred times, she decides to sort of take a vacation by joining the winning side. Why not be the Dark Lord for once?

I'm normally a poor audience for too much of a modern, pop-culture tone in fantasy, but here it worked for me. If you try this one and find the opening too bleak, consider sticking it out for another chapter or two; I think Wexler is setting you up for why Davi is so burned out that she takes her subsequent path, and/or front-loading the dark stuff so that anybody inclined to nope out at that won't get blindsided by anything later on. Much of what follows isn't surprising -- for starters, the inhuman wilders turn out to be just as much of a mixed bag as humans are -- but I found it highly engaging.

What Stalks the Deep, T. Kingfisher. Third of the Sworn Soldier novellas, which I've been greatly enjoying. I agree with Sonya Taaffe's comment on her own blog about wanting more from the central weirdness here; it feels like Kingfisher spends too long setting up the creepy atmosphere of the abandoned mine and not enough time on what the characters find there. Possibly this one should have been a short novel instead of a novella? You could start here if you wanted to, as the references to previous adventures aren't so load-bearing you can't pick them up from context; each installment is a different flavor of historical-dark-fantasy-tilting-toward-horror, leavened by Kingfisher's trademark dry narration ("I tried to back away from the floor. It went about as well as you'd expect").

The Owl Service, Alan Garner. A classic of children's fantasy I somehow managed to miss for four and a half decades. It is, as I had gathered, highly atmospheric in its restaging of the Blodeuwedd story in twentieth-century Wales, with characters being swept up in re-enacting mythic roles they never signed up for. "She wants to be flowers, but you make her owls." I greatly enjoyed everything except for the feeling that my copy somehow left out the final chapter, the one that would give me more than half a paragraph of off-ramp from the climactic moment.

Can anybody tell me if the TV adaptation is worth tracking down?

Everybody Wants to Rule the World Except Me, Django Wexler. Normally I try to space out my reading of a series, because I've learned the hard way that too concentrated of a dose tends to make me enjoy the later installments less. But since the Dark Lord Davi series is a duology, and the first book had such madcap energy, I decided to go ahead.

I don't think it's the concentration of the dose that made the conclusion somewhat disappointing. There are a number of enjoyable moments, but on the larger-scale level, I feel like the narrative ball got fumbled. Wexler set himself up with a significant central conflict -- the ongoing hatred and warfare between humans and wilders -- and then let it be handled far too easily, in a way I can't simply chalk up to the humorous tone of these novels; doing that cheapens both the story conflict and its real-world parallels. I was also underwhelmed by the eventual explanation of why Davi is in this fantasy world, why she's looping, and what the villain is up to. So, good start in the first book, but a swing and a miss in the second.

Where the Dark Stands Still, A.B. Poranek. Slavic-inspired and very folkloric fantasy about a young woman who goes into a haunted forest to pick a magical flower that blooms only once a year, all to get rid of her own magic -- only to instead wind up serving the master of that forest and uncovering the history of what's been going on there all this time. The mythic elements here were occasionally undermined just a touch by the story swerving toward conventional YA beats, but those never lasted for too long. This appears to be a standalone, though it ends with the kind of stinger that miiiiiight be setup for a future book? I sort of hope not, as it works well in its current form. And I enjoyed it enough that I promptly put another of Poranek's novels on my wishlist -- this being, of course, the curse of finding a book you like.

Paladin’s Grace, T. Kingfisher. This is a series I keep hearing mentioned in various corners of the internet, so I decided to finally try it out.

Somehow, in seeing all those references, I had missed the fact that this is straight-up fantasy romance: not a fantasy novel with a romance subplot, but a fantasy novel where the romance is the plot. Which, as I have mentioned before, winds up being less romantic to me than the alternative. I did enjoy this -- especially the worldbuilding around the Saint of Steel's paladins, the Temple of the White Rat, and so forth -- but I wanted that to be the focus of the story, not the "oh, this person couldn't possibly be interested in me" dance of the main characters' relationship. This particularly grated when it came to the serial killer plot, which landed in the worst possible middle zone of being resolved too conveniently while also not being fully resolved because (presumably) it will continue into the books centered on the love lives of the other paladins. (Also, I don't particularly like serial killer plots in the first place.) So the ending wound up being more frustrating to me than satisfying, even as I enjoyed individual elements of it.

Well, now I know. My wishlist can shrink a little instead of growing again.

Shanghai Immortal, A.Y. Chao. It's apparently my month for enjoying types of thing I normally bounce off, because this novel -- set in Jazz Age Shanghai and its underworldly (in the magical sense) counterpart -- has a protagonist who routinely exhibits a total lack of self-control, and I'm a bad audience for characters so angry at the world around them they just can't hold back. But the setting was vivid enough, and Jing's reasons for lashing out clear enough, that I happily stayed on the roller-coaster. The ending dragged out a little too much for me, with too many characters suddenly appearing to stick their oars in, but that was more a matter of craft than concept. Turns out there's a sequel forthcoming, which sends the characters to Paris; despite my reflexive "bleh" reaction these days to the word "vampire," I will check it out!

Botanical Curses and Poisons: The Shadow-Lives of Plants, Fen Inkwright. This is a lovely hardcover book with copious black and white line illustrations, organized like an encyclopedia, alphabetically. Inkwright is interested in not just poisonous plants but anything with a dark reputation, whether that's from association with witches or death, a starring role in a tragic legend, or anything else. My main caveat here is that I'd check any factual information you want to get from it, as the cited sources are often rather old ones, and I caught at least one outright error. (The Japanese word for wisteria does not mean "immortality." It's a homophone for the name of Mt. Fuji, and one of the proposed etymologies for Fuji is "immortality": not the same thing.) If you just want it for general inspiration, though, it's good for that, and very pretty!

The Alchemy of Stars II: Award Winners Showcase 2005-2018, ed. Sandra J. Lindow. Having learned this exists, of course I had to get it! I was pleased to see it includes the Dwarf Star winners, after the SFPA added a separate award for poems 10 lines and shorter. Like the first volume, it's an interesting longitudinal section of what's been going on in speculative poetry over the decades.

Little Thieves, Margaret Owen, narr. Saskia Maarleveld. As I've mentioned before, I've kind of gone off YA, because it's often out to do something other than what I really want from a novel these days. I gave this one a shot anyway because the premise sounded like it was going to land right on top of the Rook & Rose gear in my mind, and I was not wrong. What I didn't expect was that it was also going to bring a delightful folkloric strand to the party, and the kind of textured worldbuilding I so rarely get from YA. Combine that with a lively prose style whose occasional modernisms bothered me much less than usual, and, well, as soon as I finished the audiobook I went and ordered it in paper, along with the sequel. If "loose retelling of 'The Goose Girl' meets politics and a con artist/thief in a flavorful Germanic world" sounds like it's up your alley, absolutely try this one out.

Ursula K. Le Guin’s Book of Cats, Ursula K. Le Guin. A little collection of her various works (poems, prose, drawings) about cats, mostly her own. I'd encountered a couple of the poems previously and decided to get the book. It's cute, but ultimately I found I'd already read the best bits of it.

This is as good a place as any to mention that I read a lot of poetry this month. In addition to this and the collection above, I was participating in a poetry challenge for all of March wherein I had to read and comment on other participants' work, and I'm on the Rhysling jury for the long poem category. Which leads us to . . .

The Art of the Poetic Line, James Longenbach. Recommended by a fellow poet during the challenge I just mentioned. When the book showed up, I realized I'd read another from this series -- Mark Doty's The Art of Description -- which I did not find terribly useful. But this is the kind of nonfiction series where one not liking one book has absolutely no bearing on whether you'll like another by a different author, so.

Did I like this one? Kind of. I have a long-standing puzzlement with the craft of deciding where to break a line in free verse, and the idea here was to unpuzzle myself a bit. Longenbach does make a useful-to-me distinction between the end-stopped line, the parsing line, and the annotating line, and he gives a few examples about how to switch between those for effect. However, he also has a tendency to quote a bit of poetry and then describe how the lineation creates thus-and-such effect that . . . I just don't get from the quotation? Poetry is subjective; news at eleven, I guess. I learned some useful things here, which is all I could really hope for.

The Servant’s Tale, Margaret Frazer. Second of the Dame Frevisse mysteries about a fifteenth-century Benedictine nun. This one had much less of my main quibble with the first book ("why have you not asked questions yet about Obviously Weird Thing?"), and meanwhile it had as much if not more of what I liked, which is interest in how people lived back then. Here that alternates between Frevisse's life as a nun -- complete with some back-and-forth about what the religious life gives her, and what it takes away -- and the life of the titular servant, with all the stresses of being a poor peasant worrying about how she'll pay the taxes and fees that will come due if her alcoholic husband dies. This is an ideal series for me to dip in and out of when I want something short and comfortable; the third is already on my shelf.

(originally posted at Swan Tower: https://is.gd/7VMVVP)

fuck yeah spaaaace

Apr. 6th, 2026 10:14 pm
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So! Some people went around the moon! And are on their way back!

I know the live video feed was super compressed and low-res intentionally, but I hope there is high-res eclipse footage when they land.

Also I know returning to the moon is not necessarily the best use of limited resources from a science perspective, but (one) I want people to feel aspirational about people doing science in space again, so we're not just getting press about billionaire assholes who want to, I dunno, put a casino in orbit around venus; and (two) this was all a mission by and for The People. This isn't a damn SpaceX or Blue Origins launch, this is NASA (with an assist from ESA and CSA).

I am going to love good things when they happen and space is a good thing.

Monday night.

Apr. 6th, 2026 08:28 pm
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Starting tomorrow, I'll have a full week and change where every day has some obligation or appointment, one Tuesday to another. Movie tickets, dentist visits, concerts, a whole bunch of stuff. Making a cake, too, though that's more within the bounds of my apartment and doesn't require me to show up anywhere besides the grocery store, and even then it's just to buy some fresh ingredients.

Is it strange I'm looking forward to it? There's parts that are going to be slightly inconvenient, and I'm looking forward to some things more than others, and overall I'm liking the idea of having places to go, things to do. Things to get done, really.

I started the at-home cataloging gig today. I didn't do much, just a few entries, because I wanted to touch base with the client as soon as was possible within the timeline of the project. I'm waiting on a response to let me know if it's what he wants, or what he wants changed. Certainly having other things to occupy my time is going to make waiting for an email or a phone call that much easier. There's only going to be so much Lunar live footage before they have to come back to Earth.

swept our hearts clean

Apr. 6th, 2026 07:11 pm
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A little devotional-ish poetry for Easter Monday. I love Joy Harjo.

Eagle Poem )

The latest book

Apr. 6th, 2026 03:59 pm
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I finished edits on Luke over the weekend (Westerly Cove 4). Feel free to grab a copy 'til it goes live on Amazon on April 17!

book cover with a bear framed against a sunset

Get it on Bookfunnel:
https://dl.bookfunnel.com/30s06n16u7

(Blurb is still a work in progress.)

remembered!

Apr. 6th, 2026 06:53 pm
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I remembered it! Cluedo! All it took was for me to go to bed, turn off the light, and think of nothing much at all for a minute or two. :-)

In my immediate "Turtle" report a week ago I mentioned that j-wat and I talked about Rottingdean (Sussex, near Brighton). What I didn't mention was that I told him that there was once a hotel in Rottingdean whose visitors included Hollywood Golden Age stars. It's also well-known as an inspiration for the game Cluedo (aka Clue). Its original working title was "Murder at Tudor Close."

I teased j-wat a bit because he and doogie visited both Rottingdean and Osborne House (Isle of Wight) two months after I did because I kept going on about my plans! I went there because the Pre-Raphaelite painter Edward Burne-Jones and his wife Georgiana are buried there.

Funny, I'm rereading a lovely book called The Lost Pre-Raphaelite, and just last night I started counting the books I've read about the brotherhood, books I own.

On Kindle:
The Last Pre-Raphaelite
Pre-Raphaelite Sisterhood
The Lost Pre-Raphaelite
Lizzie Siddal: Face of the Pre-Raphaelites

Just those in my secretary (there may be more on other shelves):
Pre-Raphaelites in Love
A Profound Secret
Jane and May Morris
Edward Burne-Jones
My Grandmothers and I (Holman Hunt family)

I think I should have called this amusing fact a 'cool fact' - my usual term. I run across a cool fact, say 'shiny!' and share it with someone else. In the distant past this was not much appreciated, but at least now there are people in my life who not only think 'that is sooo chazz' but they like cool facts, too. :-)

ETA: yes, doogie is going to be in Clue: the Musical.

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Just one thing: 7 April 2026

Apr. 6th, 2026 06:35 pm
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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished!

Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!
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Title: Moving On
Fandom: Criminal Minds
Pairings: Jennifer "JJ" Jareau/Emily Prentiss
Characters: Emily Prentiss
Rating: G
Length: 84 words
Summary: Emily decides to let go.

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Fandom 50 #8

For 1984, it's a song that was baby's first trans/gnc anthem and remains a classic of the Canadian drag scene.

Let It Go by Luba

Space Exploration

Apr. 6th, 2026 05:29 pm
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Artemis 2 lunar flyby is Monday. What to expect

After launching on April 1, 2026, the Artemis 2 mission has already passed the halfway point between the Earth and moon. It will enter the sphere of the moon’s gravitational influence — where lunar gravity begins affecting it more than earthly gravity — today, Sunday, April 5, 2026, aka Flight Day 5. Tomorrow, April 6, Flight Day 6, the 4-person crew will perform its closest flyby to the moon. The brave astronauts will pass approximately 4,600 miles (7,400 km) above the lunar surface.

During this loop around the moon’s far side, the astronauts will break the all-time human distance record from Earth. The crew of the ill-fated Apollo 13 mission set this record at 00:21 UTC on April 15, 1970 (7:21 p.m. EST on April 14, 1970). At that moment, Apollo 13 was approximately 248,655 miles (400,171 km) away from Earth’s surface.



Exciting!

Human eyes.

Apr. 7th, 2026 08:18 am
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I sincerely think it should be legal to punch anyone who wears “smart glasses” in the face.

Leave a comment.+

Nature

Apr. 6th, 2026 04:54 pm
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King Charles III England Coast Path

The King Charles III England Coast Path (KCIIIECP), originally and still commonly known as the England Coast Path, is a long-distance National Trail that follows the coastline of England. Opened on 19 March 2026 by King Charles III, the trail extends for 2,689 miles (4,328 km).

Sections of the English coast already had established walking routes, most notably the South West Coast Path. However, the Marine and Coastal Access Act 2009 required Natural England, under section 298, to create a continuous coastal path. The first section, along Weymouth Bay, opened in 2012. The walking route is the longest coastal trail in the world, and its total length increases further when considered alongside the Wales Coast Path
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Those of you who live in or visit the United Kingdom may wish to explore this amenity.

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