I think it's probably best to not try to convey the annoyance along with the denotative information. I think, honestly, you can just say to this person, "I need a certain amount of reciprocal scheduling buy-in in a relationship, and I would appreciate either a firm date or a cordial wrapping-up of our interactions." That is a perfectly reasonable thing to say and request.
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Date: 2021-02-23 01:25 am (UTC)