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seekingferret ([personal profile] seekingferret) wrote2021-02-22 03:04 pm

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I matched with someone in a virtual speed dating a month ago. Since then we've managed one video date, plus a bunch of emails back and forth of me trying to schedule another and her telling me she's not sure what her schedule is and will get back to me.

What's a polite way to say "Hey, I can't tell if you're interested and busy or trying to awkwardly blow me off, but it's gotten to the point where I'm annoyed. If you're not interested, tell me so I can stop wasting time. And if you're busy, the ball's now in your court to figure out when you're available and try to set another date." ?
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[personal profile] angledge 2021-02-23 05:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I second this approach. No need to say you're annoyed, just put the ball in her court & see what happens.